Why Seeing the World as Victim is Hard to Change, and What You Can Do About It

Tana Saler
5 min readNov 19, 2020

Here’s why seeing the world through a Victim’s eye is hard to change, and what you can do about it:

  • A Victim is always superior to Villains. Status is a perk hard to renounce
  • Victim gets pity, which is a form of attention, and attention nourishes. When one is depleted and disconnected from love, any attention will do, including pity.
  • Many social organizations are built upon the Victim-Villain-Rescuer triangle model, with support systems that…
Tana Saler

Ottawa, Canada based energy healing practitioner and trainer, blogger and speaker. Influenced by the Integral Model and practicing integration in life and work.