Why Seeing the World as Victim is Hard to Change, and What You Can Do About It

Here’s why seeing the world through a Victim’s eye is hard to change, and what you can do about it:

• A Victim is always superior to Villains. Status is a perk hard to renounce
• Victim gets pity, which is a form of attention, and attention nourishes. When one is depleted and disconnected from love, any attention will do, including pity.
• Many social organizations are built upon the Victim-Villain-Rescuer triangle model, with support systems that…